latest news

Posted on December 22, 2005 by Anurim

NEWS…this is the key word of my life right now. Everything goes around this main subject. If you must now, I am about to become one of the most informed people of my acquaintances:) because this is what I do all day long: I hunt news. Of all kinds: breaking news, latest news, morning/evening news…everything. And I like it. Although at times I feel a bit overcome by the situation, especially during those days when many things happen and I must choose…in fact this is the most difficult thing so far, to be able to choose the most important news. At first everything was important. But I started little by little to “feel” their importance and I really hope I will be able soon to discern quickly…
This year my birthday and all Christmas fuss doesn’t seem so gloomy anymore…it’s been quite a year and many things have changed (I changed the apartment twice, I changed my job, I have a cat and a almost a dog), and I feel I am more confident right now. Still a bit dizzy, but more confident in myself. And this is one hell of an accomplishment. I am glad my brother is coming home for the holidays. I like it when I see my mother smiling all the time (it’s because of the dog, of course)… I hope every one will be ok at least on my birthday (which is on Saturday, can’t believe it). An really…after all will settle down, I think I’ll be able to write more often..

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sincerely bad mood

Posted on November 30, 2005 by Anurim

So it seems now that everyone found out about my intentions to leave my job for another. And I spent quite a few hours thinking of how to break the news to the ladies in my office. And this because I felt like betraying them, I felt like I was leaving them like an unfaithful protegee, ungrateful of the life I had for four years. Looking back, I should be grateful to them, they helped me so many times that I can’t remember, although of course, living together was not always easy. But all in all, they spoiled me like their own child and I felt somehow protected. But this had nothing to do with my carrier or my hopes in this life. I was not born, nor educated to remain a philology graduate working for an obscure chemistry magazine. It’s not that I want fame or glory, I don’t want to be a star or anything, but I want to feel motivated, to feel that I work for something and to see the results. I want to be in the middle of events, I want to feel that I LIVE, not that my brain is washed up by a strange chemistry formula I don’t even know how to pronounce.
So I spit it out, the piece of news, and they reacted ok, they were not happy, a little bit sad, but ok. My boss, instead, got mad. I didn’t even had the chance to tell him personally about it, but someone else did it for me, and so he was angry I didn’t tell him face to face. I would have, had he been available. Now this bothers me so much that I can’t help thinking about it all the time. I don’t want to leave with a bad feeling. I’m just a bad break-upper I guess.
Well, I’m going to do the laundry now, you can try these out..

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Frozen

Posted on November 29, 2005 by Anurim

I have internet at home now. So what? I am coming home late with no desire of spending even more time in front of the computer than I already do. I was hoping I wouldn’t be so tired every day and allow myself to feel things, to have sensations and instincts, but they seem all dead. So, there’s nothing left for me to do here..or maybe just to watch different net-jokes coming from my “busy” friends, all kinds of small films and power-point pictures. They look nice, sometimes they’re funny, and that’s it! Hours go by like minutes waiting for them to download… My cat will need a shrink for sure, she’s too lonely, dunno if she can make friends with the turtles, I don’t think so.
But the wind of change is blowing now, my friends, as I am about to succeed in changing the one thing I am complaining since the beginning of this blog: my job. I spent this day there, at the new place, and it was…refreshing and alive and dynamic. And perhaps this comes just in time to save me from becoming old before my age and on the inside, and being cozy and spoiled is not good at all to a certain extent. So maybe, just maybe, I will be back with more Miruna-wit:) if I may say so.
I was quoted some paragraphs of my blog the other day and all I can say it’s that I really couldn’t believe I wrote those things. Or did I change so much that now I have to find something else? We’ll see. I’m just looking forward for the future, wherever it may be:). Good night.

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at the mountains

Posted on November 24, 2005 by Anurim

It’s pretty late and I am pretty tired, this week started in force, so to speak, I was happy about this internet connection at home, but of course, those guys showed up at 8 instead of 5 and I hate when people are late. And then lots of things to do and I am running like crazy, trying to share my time for everything, but it was almost like too much noise for nothing: I run too much for such small things. My reward is a weekend at the mountains, I really needed it, hope I will come back with a different state of mind. Other than that, things are close to shaping up around here, the only thing I hate is the weather, it’s freezing and only today I had the time to get my coat to the dry-cleaner’s, in the meantime I try not to stay too much outside. It’s getting dark at 5 p.m. here and this makes me sleepy…eh, winter. Tomorrow I will be 26 and 11 months, I’m getting close to 27, Gosh, I don’t feel like my age at all. 27 sounds responsible and mature and wanting a family, instead I feel like 23 or so, barely waking up to reality:)). Or something. I’m going to bed now, sleepy…. Babay.

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at last

Posted on November 22, 2005 by Anurim

It’s 22:53 now as I’m writing, you can imagine that I’m pretty tired and sleepy but very glad that at last I HAVE INTERNET AT HOME. Of course, for most people, this is not much of an accomplishment, but to me it’s important, I can browse now freely, without my boss or anyone else looking over my shoulder to see what I’m writing or where I browse. It’s so important because I wanted it for a long time now and it’s almost unreal that I can chat with friends or see jokes without being stressed or anything. And most important of it all, I can write:). So that’s all for tonight, I’ll be back tomorrow!

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hi again

Posted on November 2, 2005 by Anurim

It’s been like…a month or so, Goooosh, I’m beginning to get lazy in writing. I don’t really mean that, but it seems that whenever I have something interesting to say, I am on my way to work in morning, on my way home, in the evening, on my way to my lessons, in different parts of this crowded and sometimes spooky city. So the idea gets lost in the crowded place that is my head, just as crowded as this city or as this life of mine. I’ll soon be 27 and I am not complaining anymore. I feel young and somehow strong, I feel I’ve overcome so many things in my life that I can easily deal with the rest of them. The only thing that’s bothering me is that my friends are getting married and having kids, it seems this year was really rich in that: weddings and baptisms. It’s weird, instead of going to a club, we’re going to a wedding party. Not that it’s not that funny, but…this means we’re growing up and stuff. Except that, my family increased with one member, the puppy Mooky, a mixture of teckel and caniche, very much looking like her caniche father. She is 6 weeks old and my mother adores her:). But my cat doesn’t:(.
I really have a Zoo at my place: 2 turtles, a cat and if I bring Mooky for the weekend…imagine that:)). And this in one room, in my brother’s studio, lucky me he’s in Florence now.
Well, my point today was that I got excited on the idea of having internet at home…and I thought I could write better on this blog if I have a quiet moment to think about things. Here, in the office, it’s too noisy and I have too many things to deal with at once to be able to think of a new post. So I really hope that the next time I will write will be from home:).
Until then:), that was it for me today…bye everyone!

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@work

Posted on October 7, 2005 by Anurim

It’s been a long time, I know, but I didn’t have anything to say or anything interesting to say. These days I feel quite bad again, like everything is wrong and I have no clue where I’m going. I have dilemmas concerning my life and my purpose in life. Or I have to just to live and see where it’s taking me? People around me are getting married and are having kids, they look like they can manage with this situation, although they are my age. I really don’t feel like it, I mean I would like to have kids at some point, but not now, I feel I still have to live a different kind of life, I am still too immature and too little to be able to raise kids of my own:(. And I am not self-confident at all, and I feel I must be strong in order to have a kid. Of course, I feel bad because my personal life is not very well right now, I don’t know exactly why, but I have the sense that something is not well, or at least that’s what I felt yesterday. Today….let’s say I am ok, so far. But this can be a premonition for some big changes (again!!!) or it can be just a phase. We’ll see.

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party tonight – part II

Posted on September 4, 2005 by Anurim

Well, this year’s party was no so funny as the last one, I mean I think I got used to the people around me and I didn’t find them so funny anymore. But I danced, which was quite a premiere this year, coz at these parties we never dance, we just watch and gossip, hihihi:)). I felt ok, like these people are my family, I am with them for 4 years and I know their stories, their lives, their moods, they know me and now I feel bad leaving them, as much as I would want that. Dunno what’s gonna be, but this morning’s mood is emotional and I don’t feel like doing any changes in my life right now. I’ve had it with changes for a while, but I can feel that something’s gonna happen, and it’s not gonna be an easy one…

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Back to work

Posted on August 31, 2005 by Anurim

I felt like writing today, which is good because I rarely feel like writing lately, don’t ask me why. I had quite a vacation, one month, I traveled, I rested, it was ok. But now I’m back to work and I feel tired again, and I think it’s the job and the routine, not the fact that I am really tired, this would be impossible after one-month holiday. And I feel like I’m little by little losing myself, and I don’t want to spend my life earning money and spending them. this is not the purpose of my life at all. I had a dream… I used to have a dream about my future. I even had a plan. It didn’t turn out as I wanted at all, but now I kinda lost it on the way and here I am, a young woman in her 20s, very close to her 30s (although I don’t feel like my age at all) not knowing where to go. I feel like I have my life in my hands, I have no obstacle that should keep me from what I want to do, but still, I do nothing because I have no idea what I want. And this is the worst thing ever because this is not a quest for myself, I am not trying out different things to see if they suit me, I only think of them and suppose they just don’t. Because I don’t feel like it.
All I know is that I don’t want to become an office girl, all dressed up, thinking only of clothes, make-up or other shallow subjects like that. I’m not saying I should be bothered only by fundamental things in life either…but still. Trouble is that here, a high salary involves this kind of office-like character. And little by little I will be losing myself and I everything I am right now. I like myself as I am now. But I had enough struggling to make it each month. However, this will not be the case for a while at least since I will be moving to my brother’s studio with no rent whatsoever:) and that’s the good news.
Other than that, I hope this writing mood is long-lasting:).

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one-year dillema

Posted on July 7, 2005 by Anurim

It’s been one hell of a year. An year to remember I guess, because things have never been so fluctuating in my life before. But now I think I’m getting better, although the changes, and I mean basic changes in my life, haven’t stopped. I still need a better-paid job, a different house or a house of my own..things like that. But all I want in this world is not to lose myself…not to become something I now hate, not to do things I consider despicable right now….I don’t want to forget about me in this speedy and material modern life. And I say this because money have become a hell of an issue lately. Maybe because of their scarce presence in my life, or maybe because I am surrounded by people who consider always a material interest in everything. Or so it seems…
I have no conclusion now….my blog is my relief, my escape sometimes, my confident, my shrink, my diary, my box of hidden thoughts… I write for myself and my writing reflects my mood, my state of spirit and my feelings. Dunno how it looks from the outside, I only know the inside :)…ranging from a white-pinkish atmosphere, to a blue-black one sometimes.
Right now I’ve come to the conclusion that I’ll never marry. It’s no purpose in doing that, as a girl, it has no meaning to be queen for a night, and depressed afterward, when your new husband will be desiring every woman in the world but you, and will feel confined in a marriage he realizes he didn’t want, that came too soon with too much responsibility. And I’m saying that because I actually know it happens… Not a very nice or pink perspective. And of course, there are cases that may contradict my opinion. If so, I’m glad. However, I am currently feeling that marriage has no point whatsoever.
Other than that, my cat is very funny, but she managed to almost break one of her front arms last night, I ran quickly to the doctor with her, she is now ok:). But she cried like a baby last night, I felt so sorry for her.
And that would be all, folks!!!

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